showing love isn't a crime

SHOWING LOVE ISN’T A CRIME

“I have a mom and I love her deeply but sadly I ‘m the one who always hurting her.

I LOVE YOU…..How could I tell you this,mom???Oh,help me!!!”

This is one crucial problem faced by a teenager who has problems in expressing his love towards his mom. Uttering a word “LOVE” to parents is a must for every child in this world. But what is exactly the best way to say it?-post it on classified, carve it on sand, mow it on the lawn it in the garden or say it out loud???

Here are some advice for all of you out there who are having this kind of problem….

· A question to ponder….

"Why is it so hard for you to say “I LOVE YOU MOM” or “I LOVE YOU SO MUCH DAD” rather than “I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART,DARLING!” even though your parents are the ones who have raised you up and have been giving you unlimited love and yet money to buy presents for your lover. Isn’t it a shame???"

· Appreciate the ones who are always there for you whether you are in a gloomy day or when you are happy…-parents of course!!

· Give presents or cards or just a simple wish on their birthdays or anniversary, father’s day and mother’s day will be perfect. It is a way to show your love towards them without having to say it out. Sometimes, it is easier to express feelings in writing rather than words. Action speaks louder than words, right??

· Stop acting like an egocentric person. You may think that your parents are old-fashioned in their thinking, but always think beyond that. They have a lot of experiences although they are not in your generation…..-they have the true instinct!!

· First thing first-familiarise yourself with petty things that you may think that are not important to yourself but all these things may mean a lot to your parents.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS! :)

o HUG-a person who is lack of touch is the one who is lack of love. Are you one of them?!

o HOLDING HANDS-make a relationship become closer

o CHATTING TOGETHER-know each other well

o SHARING SECRETS-enhance trustworthy

o TREAT THEM LIKE YOUR BEST BUDDIES-not to put a boundary in the relationship

o KISS THEM ON THEIR CHEEKS-to express love and care

o GREET THEM WITH WARMTH-showing respect

o ALWAYS CALL TO KNOW THEIR CONDITION-showing that you always care for them

o SAY THAT YOU MISS THEM

o TALK TO THEM NICELY

You may think that all these actions are ALIEN to you but face the reality-you will get used to it along with the time. Don’t be shy to say “I LOVE YOU” and you will feel better then.

Best of luck and happy trying!!!